Life with an alcoholic is never easy: for one, they spend more time drunk than sober, and people that knew the person before he or she became an alcoholic find it difficult to accept that their loved one is now a shadow of his or her former self.
Fortunately, there are ways to help alcoholics detoxify and take back the lives they used to have. However, the alcoholic is not the only one who should exert effort towards recovery. The people surrounding the alcoholic must play an active role in the process too.
One of the most important things that they can do for the alcoholic is never to take the blame for the habit they picked up. Even though they might be blaming the people around them as the reason for their drinking binge, it is important to remember that they have become dependent on the alcohol and will not say nice things all the time.
Secondly, doing anything to keep the problem of the loved one under wraps will not help him either. Hiding it or attempting to cure the alcoholic in secret will do nothing but probably worsen his condition. Concerned people surrounding the alcoholic should reach out to people who know how to heal them.